Indication

When someone asks for answers, they expect a clear option — practically, they want you to choose for them. But what you can often offer instead is an indication: a direction to search, a prompt to think.

Many times people ask from ego or from laziness. From laziness, because they do not want to seek the truth — they just want easy answers, a simple affirmation that matches what they already believe. And that, at bottom, is also ego: they want to know what you choose either to judge you or to confirm that you belong to the same tribe.

Indications can take the form of questions — questions that serve as examples of what we should be asking ourselves to find the truth. Questions that reveal whether we are thinking with genuine criteria: Am I only absorbing the knowledge that reaches me by default? Am I seeking different perspectives, comparing, and searching for truth? Am I aware that media is not impartial? Am I aware if I am only consuming news from one side? Do I truly understand? Who really benefits from this? Is this aligned with my values? Is this coherent?

I think that most of the time the best way to offer an indication is to show a mental model for thinking — not an answer, not a conclusion. We must let the other person find their own.